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Coparency
Co-parenting, designed for calm

Peace of mind for parents navigating high‑conflict divorce.

Coparency is the calm, child-centered co-parenting app — built by a co-parent who lived it. Write better messages, shield yourself from hostile ones, share one unified calendar, and settle expenses without the fight. Powered by Peacekeeper AI.

Free while we're in early access — no credit card needed.

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Coparency dashboard — upcoming swaps, pending expenses, and a calm overview of what needs attention today
Matt, founder of Coparency
I couldn't find the calm I was searching for in any existing tool — so I built the one I needed.
Matt · Founder of Coparency
Peacekeeper AI

Three layers of peace, working together.

Peacekeeper AI helps you write better messages, shield yourself from hostile ones, and improve how you communicate over time.

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Compose

Help writing better messages — before they're sent.

  • Tone analysis as you type
  • Coaching in BIFF, Grey Rock, Strategic, On-topic
  • Rewrite suggestions grounded in your voice
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Protect

Shield your peace from hostility.

  • Hostility screening on incoming messages
  • Calm Delivery — scheduled, batched notifications
  • Urgent messages still come through right away
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Insights

Understand patterns over time.

  • Tone trends and topic patterns across conversations
  • Reflect on what's improving and where it's getting harder
  • Shareable summaries for lawyers, mediators, and coordinators
Messaging

Logistics tools organize your schedule. Coparency protects your peace.

Most co-parenting tools were built for calendars and receipts. Coparency starts somewhere deeper — the emotional weight of every message, every notification, every exchange. We help you stay steady so your kids have the parent they need.

  • Tone analysis and rewrite coaching in four styles as you type
  • Incoming hostility screening — urgency, tone, and topic labeled
  • Calm Delivery batches notifications; urgent messages still cut through
Peacekeeper AI flagging a hostile incoming message in the Coparency inbox

I had to learn to create a necessary buffer between the notification and my response. But breaking that cycle of reactivity wasn't easy — it required constant practice and the right support.

Matt, founder of Coparency

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Built from lived experience

This is the tool I wish I'd had when I needed it most.

My own high-conflict divorce taught me that existing co-parenting tools handled logistics — but ignored the emotional weight of every message. I built Coparency to fill that gap.

Matt, founder of Coparency
MattFounder of Coparency
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Built with parents

Help us build a better way.

Coparency is shaped by real feedback from real co-parents. We listen, we learn, and we ship improvements continuously — because every family navigating high conflict deserves a tool that actually meets them where they are.

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Questions

Frequently asked questions

Bring calm to your co-parenting.

Free while we're in early access — no credit card needed. Get started in minutes, even if your co-parent never joins.

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